Why Your Photographer Might Be the Most Important Vendor on Your Big Day (Yes, I am Biased- But Also Right)
Listen, I'm not saying photographers carry the entire wedding on their back... But I am saying we're the only vendor who literally follows you around all day, documents every laugh and champagne spill, and then hands you memories you'll have forever. Your cake will get eaten. Your flowers will wilt. Your playlist might include a rogue Nickelback song. But your photos? They're eternal.
So yes, I'm a photographer. And yes, maybe I am a little biased. But here's the truth: your photographer isn't just taking pretty pictures. We're preserving moments.. Your grandma's teary smile, your partner's reaction when they see you, your best friend aggressively doing the worm on the dance floor.
And since we're going to be third-wheeling your wedding for 8+ hours, let's make sure you actually like us. Here's how to vet your photographer (with all the right questions) and make sure it's a good fit:
#1 Stalk Their Work Like It's Your Ex's New Girlfriend-
Do you love their editing style? Do their photos make you feel something? Don't just go for trendy- go for timeless to you.
#2 Ask the Right Questions (Not Just "How Much?")
*Below I will attach a more in-depth list you can screenshot and save for later*
- "What is your approach on a wedding day- are you more hands-on or do you prefer to document quietly?"
- "Can I see a full gallery, not just the Insta highlights?"
- "Have you shot at my venue or something similar?"
- "What happens if it rains/snows/turns into a zombie apocalypse?"
#3 Vibe Check = Essential
Hop on a call or meet for coffee. You don't have to be best friends, but if they make you feel awkward or you wouldn't want them in your bridal suite at 8am... maybe keep looking.
#4 Read the Reviews (and Between the Lines)
Do people mention they felt comfortable? That the photos felt like them? That the photographer blended in and made the day better? Gold.
Bottom line: Choose someone whose work makes your heart do a little dance and whose presence you won't secretly dread. Because when the confetti's swept and your feet are sore, your photos are what's left. (Along with your marriage. But, you know, priorities.)
If you're still looking and want someone who won't make you do a cheesy prom pose (unless you're into that, in which case-let's goo!), I might just be your gal.
-Julie
JRB Photography
Bonus Content: Photographer Questionnaire
Feel free to use these on your next inquiry call with your pick of potential photographers!
Portfolio Style & Process
We touched on this a little bit earlier but here are some more in-depth questions:
- Can I see full galleries from recent weddings/shoots? (You want to see how they capture the entire event, not just the 10 best shots.)
- How would you describe your photography style? (e.g. documentary, editorial, moody, light & airy.)
- Have you shot at our venue or similar locations before?
- How many weddings/ shoots have you photographed?
- What's your approach on the day- are you more hands-on or do you prefer to document quietly?
- Do you work with a second shooter or assistant?
Logistics
- What's included in your packages, and can we customize them?
- How many hours of coverage do we get, and what's the cost of extra time?
- How do you handle lighting in low-light settings like indoor receptions or ceremonies?
Turnaround & Deliverables
- When will we get our photos, and how many can we expect?
- Do we receive high-resolution files, and are they edited?
- Will we have rights to print and share the images?
Contracts & Payment
- What's the deposit and payment schedule?
- Is there a contract? Can I review it before signing?
- What's your cancellation or rescheduling policy?



